Seek wise counsel

A wise man will hear and increase in learning, and a man of understanding will acquire wise counsel.

Proverbs 1:5

God speaks in various ways. He speaks to you directly most of the time through His word and in your heart.
Sometimes, He speaks through other born-again mature believers.
That is why it is important to always be sensitive to God's voice.
Through various trials, God teaches His children and through them teach others what they went through and how they handled it by God given wisdom.
This is one of the best ways of getting out of problems and troubles in our lives.
Pray, asking God to send that person through whom you can receive wise counsel.
And when God sends wise counsel through other people, be ready to listen and accept, and apply.
Surround yourself with mature praying believers.
Fellowship with them.
You succeed with wise counsel but fail without it (Proverbs 15:22).